Is There Such a Thing as "Fuck You!" Lit? Breaking Free: A Way Out for Adult Children of Narcissists is NOW ON SALE!

Is there such a thing as “fuck you!” lit? 

You bet there is!

Breaking Free: A Way Out for Adult Children of Narcissists is now available!

6 x 9 trim, 346 pages, visually interesting, entertaining and informative!

The book is $21.99 and NOW available for International purchase at CreateSpace  HERE

Narcissists beware! We’re mad as hell and we're not going to take it anymore!

In this book, ACONs vent their rage at their “crazy” “abusive” “neglectful” and “self-centered” parents, siblings, relatives, ex-spouses, in-laws, friends, lovers, co-workers, neighbours – you name it!  We’ve had narcissists plague every aspect of our lives.

But in the process we learn how to decode the narcissist's playbook, execute strategies to never let a narcissist in our head, and defend and protect ourselves against abuse and even beat the narc assholes at their own game! 

Breaking Free is an awesome reference tool to learn everything you need to know about narcissism and malignant narcissists (and never let you forget!). It’s a compilation of 40 of the most popular blog articles with a glimpse at the stream of fury generated by each post. The book explores narcissistic abuse and the ways in which ACONs have been universally abandoned in the aftermath of emotional trauma and how embracing our outrage at cruel and unjust treatment can reconnect us with our self and help us break free from an abusive past. 

If you’re looking for a cool book (and an ACON legacy) filled with all the information you will ever need on Narcissists and Malignant Narcissism, Breaking Free: A Way Out for Adult Children of Narcissists will not disappoint!

If you like the book please spread the word! Let’s get the ACON message out there!

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The Answer to the Problem of Evil is to Deter it

  

Here's a good, cut through all the bull sh** article by Kathy Krajco... gleaned from the pages of her site "What Makes Narcissists Tick."

The answer to the problem of evil in the world is to deter it. There. See? Did that take an Einstein? Every child knows this. If somebody punches you, make it cost him. If you don't, expect another punch tomorrow.

I have seen total idiocy among school teachers on this. They think that both kids in a fight are automatically wrong. What simpletons. They need their Commandments boiled down to a cheat sheet of literal dos and don'ts, because they have no moral sense and therefore can't tell right from wrong.

They create the perfect world for bullies. You know, like all the bystanders - who have nothing to say about the narcissist's abuse but condemn you the victim for anything you do to try to put a stop to it.

ANYTHING. They condemn you for hitting back. They condemn you for yelling back. They condemn you for countering the character-assassinating lies he is spreading about you - you must let him murder you this way without showing that he is lying by projection, for that would damage the poor little character assassin's good name! Yes, the holier-than-thous are that crazy. They condemn you for abandoning the poor, hurt little dear. If he or she is in your school, after they have condemned you for every other thing you might do to protect yourself, they seal the door to your torture chamber by condemning you for skipping class. In other words, they insist that you present yourself daily to your abuser for more abuse. AND that you submit to it without doing anything in your defense.

Ah, perversity is endless.

When I began teaching, I was shocked (but later understood) when an old colleague of mine said that he never ran to stop a fight. He timed his arrival to make sure the really angry kid got a few licks in. Why? Because he knew that the school administrators were idiots and that both kids would be punished equally with virtually no effort to find out and stop what had caused the fight. Therefore, those few licks were the only deterrent to the jerk who had started the fight by picking on the other kid till he just couldn't take any more (and feel like he had a spine).

In short, we need to speak up and shout down the idiots who keep preaching that self-defense is a sin and that justice is "revenge" and that you must "forgive" the unforgivable = an offense in progress, a denied offense, a continuing offense = an unrepented offense.

Some people, many people, are amoral. They have no moral restraints. Unless you want to be their victim, you had better teach them an object lesson to go find easier prey.

And no, normal people don't get carried away with the freedom to defend themselves. The control-freak religious rulers and social engineers would have us think so, but that is baloney. Normal people HATE conflict. They hate fighting. The only time they are even tempted to fight is when under some sort of attack. We are just like other animals in this. They snarl and snap at an intrusion or offense and two seconds later have forgotten about it.

Why? Because the purpose was DEFENSIVE - to back the other party off. Once that mission is accomplished, it's done. Getting carried away just doesn't happen when DEFENSE is your cause and goal. It's not even a temptation.

The abuser is the one who has other goals, offensive ones that he or she gets carried away with. It's the abnormal people, those who are predators, who get carried away. And what carries them away is a victim lying down for it.

Ironic, eh? Exactly what the holier-than-thous force the victim to do is what causes the victim to eventually snap and go ballistic. I say let people defend themselves. Then they will put an end to abuse when it starts, long before it escalates to such a point.

We need these sanctimonious hypocrites to stop making out people to be evil if they fight back. Or run away. As in divorce or skipping school. You cannot force people to submit to abuse. That is the Sin of Sodom, otherwise known as making someone bend over for it. It violates the Laws of Nature. And common sense.

Beyond that, all we need is for the mental health profession to do its job by making sure the public IS aware of how many predators are out there. Most people have no idea that predators are not rare and that everyone runs into them. If people knew this, they'd be a good deal more careful and would take warning signs seriously.

What a better, safer world it would then be.